By Ralphie Jacobs
Did you know that the number one indicator of academic success is being an avid reader???
Talk about pressure to make sure that happens for your kids! Especially when each of them have their own natural inclinations to either love reading or... not so much.
I think that a lot of us feel like our children should have an intrinsic desire to read… just for the love of reading, because most adults get that feeling. But the reality is that most things don’t become rewarding in and of themselves until you’ve been given LOTS of exposure and experience with that thing.
So, here enters the reward system.
I have done lots of different reading reward systems, but the one that we are using now has been by far the most effective at getting my children to look forward to reading and fostering that highly desired ability to get lost in a book. AND it’s self reinforcing which is huge.
My kids call it… THE MOM STORE.
What you’ll need:
Pretty simple so far, right? It is! Here’s how to do it:
1. Each time a child finishes a book she is given 1 ticket for every 10 pages that she reads. These books must be at her reading level and she has to finish the book in order to get the tickets. After a while, she will have a nice pile of them saved up.
2. The Mom Store is a big plastic bin that you fill with snacks and stuffed animals.
3. Here is the key: The Mom Store is only opened if all of the kids are committing to 1 hour of reading. It does not open under any other circumstance.
4. The kids use their tickets to either purchase snacks or rent “reading buddies” (stuffed animals).
5. Another key element: The snacks and reading buddies can only be used during reading time. They can’t purchase things with their tickets to use later, so make sure that they are getting a moderate amount.
That’s it! Watch as they get excited for reading time! During the school year we do The Mom Store on the weekends and during the summer we do it every day.
You can add other things to The Mom Store for them to earn as well. Some of those things they have to earn collectively, and others they can earn from themselves. We’ve done:
A good friend of mine started The Mom Store recently and here’s what she had to say about it:
“A month ago I was struggling to get some of my kids excited about reading so I asked Ralphie for ideas about her Mom Store. I had heard so much about it from her kids in our carpool. In the last month I now have 2 reluctant readers who ask to read. Giving extra rewards for reading has changed how my kids feel about reading and does not even require extra effort on my part. It is awesome to see my house now full of readers!”
Be creative! Have fun putting a store together. And most of all, happy reading!!!
Hi, I'm Jen! I adore chocolate, I'd rather read than clean my house, and I haven't seen my abs in I-don't-know-how-long. But I love my husband and kids to death and try to Raise The Good within myself and my family by making wise and uplifting media choices and having a deliberate family culture. You are probably doing the same thing. Let's share what works with each other!
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